You are single but not by choice. You are spending time and effort looking for love and you’re wondering why it seems so hard to get. Here’s the thing, before you come up with conclusions, it would be best to do an honest assessment of yourself first. Examining and evaluating your own personality will help you identify the problem and come up with the right solution to address your issues. Here’s a checklist of characteristics that make women cringe.
#1) You’re a Doormat
From a woman’s perspective, being super nice, agreeing to almost everything and letting people treat you however they want are signs of weakness. It makes them feel that you’re incompetent in the sense that you can’t make your own decision and voice out your own opinion. Sometimes, you have to show your tough side. Be a man and make women feel that they’re safe with you and that you’re capable of protecting them.
#2) You’re a Mama’s Boy
Don’t get me wrong, women like it when men have good relationship with their mothers. On the contrary, if you like to talk too much about your mother, you’re telling her almost everything that’s going on with your life and you fulfill her every wish even if it’s unreasonable, then that’s a red flag.
A woman who shares bed with a man would want her to be number one in his life. Also, women fantasize about men with power, not someone who can get easily swayed by other people specifically, their mothers.
#3) You’re Boring
Your everyday life is basically a routine. You don’t want to do anything differently and you’re very predictable. Also, your sense of humor is below sea level and your conversation pieces can make any woman fall asleep.
You can change that by learning how to pull off a surprise. Women dig unpredictability. Moreover, they find men, who can make them laugh, sexy and attractive. Being playful and spontaneous are indications of intelligence.
#4) You Think Highly of Yourself
If you believe that you’re way hotter than any woman you have dated, then you obviously fall in this category. Other signs include being self-centered and having unrealistic standards that are not at par with your personality.
There’s nothing wrong in being a little picky or choosy but you have to get real. Avoid having delusional expectations like having a Victoria Secret Model-type woman who can keep your apartment tidy and who submits to being regulated to the kitchen. There’s beauty behind imperfections and you just need to learn to find them.
#5) You’re a Flirt
This is the type of character that makes a woman wants to turn and run. Flirting can be fun and charming but not if you’re doing it with everyone, including your date’s friends. If you have this reputation, then you don’t really qualify to be in a relationship.
#6) You Have a Serious Case of Hygiene-Deficiency
You have to learn to take care of yourself because even Brad Pitt and hot models out there are exerting their effort and putting their best foot forward to look good. You don’t necessarily have to go overboard, you just have make sure that you wear clean and decent clothes, eat healthy and most importantly, smell good all the time.
This article is not just about changing your relationship status, but finding genuine love, someone you can develop deep connection with, understands you and will stick with you no matter what. In order to make this happen, you have to stop searching for the perfect woman or refrain from looking for someone to make you happy. Be the right man first.
Doing a self-check or evaluation is your initial step towards a promising love life. Prepare and make that change by first finding happiness in singlehood, which is the prerequisite for being whole. There’s a reason why “I” comes before “you” in “I love you.” You have to embrace yourself first and be complete before can share your life with another person.
Is there anything else that you would like to add on the list? Feel free to leave your comments below.